One Reason Why Men MarryBy
I know that marriage is supposed to be about falling in love and wanting to spend the rest of your life with the person you love. Therefore, if your boyfriend loves you he should automatically want to marry you. Well I’m here to tell you, love is only one of the reasons why men get married.
One of the big reasons why men marry is because the person they are with is an amazing partner. Let’s look at some of the things that make up a good life partner for a man:
- A partner is someone that works with them to create a life. A future that they both can enjoy and look forward to living each and every day. Not just someone who is pretty and believes they are special. There are lots of beautiful women in this world and everybody is special because we are all unique. At least that is what they taught us in elementary school.
- Someone who supports him no matter what. Its easy to find a person who is willing to support someone during the good times. Ask yourself, you would be willing to stay and support him, If he lost his job, had no income and was completely bankrupt? Would you be willing to support him both financially and emotionally?
- Are you a calming, relaxing and loving environment to be around? Work is a constant source of stress, so coming home to you is supposed to be a calm environment where he can re-energize for the next day. If you are a constant emotional roller coaster, that is a complete drain on him, there is a large chance he will not marry you.
- Do you help to make his life easier? Do you give him the support and helping hand he needs to achieve his goals? This does not mean he should not help and support you, but you need to look at whether you really give him the helping hand he needs. The simplest way to do this is to look at whether his life is easier with you in it or if it is easier for him to be single. Would he have more money in his account without you? Would he have more time to focus on his business, hobbies or the things he really enjoys? Would he be less stressed?
These are just a few of the factors that make up a good partner and will influence him to look at marriage more seriously. There is one thing I continuously hear in every speech a successful man gives and that is “I would not be where I am, if it was not for my loving wife.” Love didn’t help to get the man to where he is. It was the fact that his loving wife was an amazing partner who helped support him in doing what he needed to do to succeed. She was that extra helping hand that he needed. She was the partner in life, that he had been looking for.
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